HELP WITH THIS PLEASE> ITS ABOUT A GIRL...?

So i met this girl when i was about 14 and we would always flirted and kiss but nithing more. she wanted me to take her virginity but i wouldnt do it becouse everytime we had the oppertunity she was drunk and i liked her and wanted it to be a good experience and not just a drunken lay. so we never had and eventually lost contact with eachother. its 8 years later now and i see her in a bar. didnt say anything but noticed she kept looking over. about an hour later she comes up to the table and asks me to dance. right away we seemed to hit it off again so we exchanged numbers and went out again the next night. We ended up having that night and the next day i hungout with her and had lunch. she called me that night and i went out with her and her friends. she got so wasted she was hittin on me and at the last second took another dude home. i got pissed off and told her not to call me anymore. she called me the next day and apologized and said she didnt do anything with him and didnt even remember like hitting on him. so again we hungout that night. just sat at my place and watched movies and then no just cuddled. the next morning we had in the shower and i wasnt giving my best performance. about ten minutes after we finnished she left. she told me that she would call me and hasnt yet. Ive always been in relationships so i guess i dont really remember how this works but i dont want to come off as desperate because im not but i do like her and do want her to know that i dont just want out of this deal. I really do enjoy her company and her beauty. had i not know her before i wouldnt tell her yet but since I knew her and had feelings for her is it to early to tell her still or would it be ok and not make me look like a loser? and from what i told you do you think that she likes me or just wants ? she is also very pretty and could probably get any guy she wanted.