Boyfriend Help?!?!?!?!?

Ok, so I'm sitting with my boyfriend at lunch and I sit with he and his friends. Two of his friends are pushy, annoying, and obnoxious and another swears all of the time, but he does have non jerk friends. They told me with him sitting right beside me that he wanted to hold my hand. I honestly don't mind, I welcome the idea, and I kept my hands under the table and he kept his under the table too, but he didn't make a move and I don't think that the girl should make the first move. I just said ok and left it at that. They kept antagonizing us about it and it seemed that he wanted them to shut up just about as bad as I did. We ended up not holding hands and now I feel horrible about it! I would love to old hands with him, I've been wondering about it myself, but I wanted it to happen at it's own pace, not because of his idiot friends. My boyfriend doesn't act like his friends, and we supprisingly have ALOT in common, and when he's not around his group of 3 friends, he's the smart, witty, funny, and sweet guy I fell into like with (notice I didn't say l love, at 14, you dont love) but I inly get to see this side of him 70 minutes 5 days a week, and we're usually so busy then we dont get to talk. His friends say he's alot more fun without me around, and have asked me to leave the table twice, jokingly... I think, but I didn't leave. His friends also tell me stuff like 'we showed him a tape in math today, do you want to see it?' and stupid crap like that. I would go and sit at my old table, but the staff at my school recently took away break so now I only see him for science and lunch. I also told my best guy friend about this and he said that it sounds like he doesnt stick up for you. I mean, we all have some faults. We're 14 by the way and in the 8th grade. Help Please, I'm really confused! Also: We're Going to Disney World for spring break, any ideas on what to get him? We will have only been dating when I go for 2 weeks so any idea